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  • The Secret Life of Procrastinators and the Stigma of Delay
  • Procrastination is Not to Blame
  • ​Why You Should Fear Failure
  • What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastinating or Not
  • ​On Knowing the Sex of Your Unborn Child
  • Why I Wish I Could Be A Narcissist
  • Why Time-Outs Need A Time Out
  • Illusion: The "Queen of the Human Heart"
  • Can You Accept A Compliment?
  • The Shame of Breaking-up
  • Is It Love Or Is It Confusion?
  • Reflections On Pixar’s “Inside Out” and the Neglect of Shame
  • What Excites You?
  • Why Bullies Don't Feel Bad (Or Don't Know They Do)
  • Seeking Comfort the Impossible Way
  • How Blushing Exposes You and Benefits You
  • When Smartphones Hurt
  • Happiness Can Make You Cry and Smiling Can Make You Happier
  • Impossible Love
  • Twins: In Defense of Togetherness
  • What Makes A Soulmate?
  • Song of the Longing Soul
  • Meanness Hurts
  • What Makes You Happy…Really
  • When It’s Over…Badly
  • “Rebound” Relationships
  • "Hooking-up" Can Unhinge You
  • Jealousy and Envy: The Emotions of Comparison and Contrast
  • When Being Giving Doesn't Give You What You Need
  • Loneliness, Shame, and Anguish
  • Longing and the Dread of Emptiness
  • On Being Afraid of Love
  • Violence and Shame: The Attack Other Response
  • What Makes You Driven?
  • Feeling Is Believing
  • Deconstructing Lust
  • Take Your Emotions To School! (Part 2, Social Success)
  • Take Your Emotions To School!
  • Do Emotions Lie?
  • Emotional Memories
  • Blissful Love Can Make You Sick or Crazy
  • Being Envied Is Not Enviable
  • Embarrassment
  • The Complexity of Fear
  • Should You Worry?
  • Sad Love
  • Pride: Turbo-charge for Motivation or Social Nemesis?
  • Maybe You Should Be Angry
  • Loneliness Has A Purpose
  • The Power of Hope, and Recognizing When It’s Hopeless
  • The Downside of Success: Guilt or Shame
  • Grief Isn’t Something to Get Over
  • Shame: The Concealed, Contagious, and Dangerous Emotion
  • Envy: The Secretly Held Emotion
  • What Jealousy Can Teach You 
  • Whatever Happened to Guilt?
  • Anxiety Is Your Friend
  • Like It or Not, Emotions Will Drive the Decisions You Make Today
  • The Perennial New Year’s Resolution
  • Should Santa Care If You've Been Naughty or Nice?
  • On Reuniting: The Emotional Storm of High School Reunions
  • Children and Loss: When Holidays Trigger Grief
  • Making Emotional Sense of Why Baseball Players Spit
  • Do Bullies Actually Lack Empathy?
  • Do Bullies Really Have Low Self-esteem?